The rest of our performances at Goose Route went as well as could have imagined. We garnered some wonderful feedback on all of the work we brought, but surprisingly enough, the piece we received the most commentary about was the Quilt piece. I was at first, apprehensive about the piece, feeling that it might be too subtle, and not virtuosic enough to grab anyone's attention. However, as we were approached by audience members, we heard that they enjoyed the subtlety of the piece in comparison to the more physical offerings, and appreciated the feelings of history, homage and stewardship they got from the piece. More still, I got many compliments on the music, and requests of where one might purchase it. For those who had not read the program, it was a pleasant surprise to hear that I had both written and performed the music! I was at first, apprehensive about that as well, thinking that the secret would be out...I am not a "professional musician!" However, I was humbly reminded, as I have been many times, that when you release a piece of work into the world, you have no idea how others will receive it. I still think the piece needs some finesse, which will come over time, but I am very happy with how the work was received, and couldn't have asked for a better premiere.
During the festival, I also received some exciting news, regarding our film, "Two Downtown," which we also showed to enthusiastic response at the festival. The film has been awarded the "Best Dance For Camera" award at the 2010 Foursite Film Festival in Ogden, UT! This is our second "best of" award for the film! I am so surprised, and happy with the success of this film! It's success, like the quilt piece, has been totally unexpected, and I am humbled by our good fortune!
Today, after a very brief stop in Winston Salem, I am back in Charleston, SC with my friend and collaborator, Laura. We are working on material for our new work, which will include the quilt piece. We are preparing for our September residency at NC State University, and planting seeds for the larger work we'll create and perform after that residency. Many ideas have been pouring out of us, and we have made some progress as to what the trajectory of the work will be. We have decided on a working title, "Common Threads." The themes that seem to be emerging at this point are correspondance, sewing and weaving, in the literal sense and in metaphor. I will have more soon, as we progress with our material. Until then!
~Cara
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Friday, July 23, 2010
Goose Route Weekend II Begins!
Another great day in Shepherdstown has come to an end. I am excited about all of the lovely work included in the festival this weekend! Fast dance, slow dance, serious dance, hilarious dance! This intimate group of choreographers and dancers are as varied as can be.
Sharon Mansur, from Washington, D.C. brings a collection of contemplative multimedia work entitled "Here/There," that invites audience members to look closely and be absorbed in the beautiful, natural images reflected in Sharon's body and on the screen. Audience members journey through wild landscapes as intimate shots and subtle movements reveal small wonders which might otherwise be looked over.
Green Chair Dance Group from Philadelphia presents a satisfying, comedic work that had me and many others laughing out loud from beginning to end! The way in which the group incorporates bodies colliding into walls, sweat bands, the word, "WHOA!" and a huge painting all in the same piece not only show off the group's knack for the absurd, but their maturity and sensitivity within the genre, making their offering an exciting experience.
Goose Route Dance, comprised of GRDF Director Kitty Clark and Festival Consultant, Ray Shaw, show their versatility through two contrasting works, one of which is a series of minute-long vignettes choreographed by a handful guest artists. The work takes audience members on a winding energetic journey as Kitty and Ray engage in tender moments, only to turn into super heroes the next! In their second offering, the pair show their more serious side, with a deliciously dark multimedia work that includes Anglo-Saxon narration that manifests itself in the dancer's bodies through strong shapes and tense moments.
Laura Peterson Choreography, out of NYC presents two excerpts from an evening length work called, "Forever." This fun, colorful, highly physical work is one sure to make anyone watching feel energized. The four dancers in the company expertly demonstrate the capabilities of the human body while taking the audience for a loop with breathtaking physical clarity, spot-on musicality and subtle humor. A crowd pleaser, for sure!
Happy to see such wonderful work, I'm also happy to say that our first day of performance has gone well, and we have gotten some very positive feedback thus far! I'm excited about our long day tomorrow. Sleep calls, more soon.
~Cara
Sharon Mansur, from Washington, D.C. brings a collection of contemplative multimedia work entitled "Here/There," that invites audience members to look closely and be absorbed in the beautiful, natural images reflected in Sharon's body and on the screen. Audience members journey through wild landscapes as intimate shots and subtle movements reveal small wonders which might otherwise be looked over.
Green Chair Dance Group from Philadelphia presents a satisfying, comedic work that had me and many others laughing out loud from beginning to end! The way in which the group incorporates bodies colliding into walls, sweat bands, the word, "WHOA!" and a huge painting all in the same piece not only show off the group's knack for the absurd, but their maturity and sensitivity within the genre, making their offering an exciting experience.
Goose Route Dance, comprised of GRDF Director Kitty Clark and Festival Consultant, Ray Shaw, show their versatility through two contrasting works, one of which is a series of minute-long vignettes choreographed by a handful guest artists. The work takes audience members on a winding energetic journey as Kitty and Ray engage in tender moments, only to turn into super heroes the next! In their second offering, the pair show their more serious side, with a deliciously dark multimedia work that includes Anglo-Saxon narration that manifests itself in the dancer's bodies through strong shapes and tense moments.
Laura Peterson Choreography, out of NYC presents two excerpts from an evening length work called, "Forever." This fun, colorful, highly physical work is one sure to make anyone watching feel energized. The four dancers in the company expertly demonstrate the capabilities of the human body while taking the audience for a loop with breathtaking physical clarity, spot-on musicality and subtle humor. A crowd pleaser, for sure!
Happy to see such wonderful work, I'm also happy to say that our first day of performance has gone well, and we have gotten some very positive feedback thus far! I'm excited about our long day tomorrow. Sleep calls, more soon.
~Cara
Thursday, July 22, 2010
First Full Day
After our first full day in Shepherdstown, I am ready for bed, but wanting to first tell you about the wonderful experiences had this day!
I very much enjoyed meeting all of the other dancers that will be participating in the festival this weekend. It is an intimate group of only about twelve people (I think that is how many I counted!). I am excited to see everyone's work. Today was tech, so we did not get to see anyone's pieces today. However, I am happy to learn that there is a diversity of styles being represented this weekend, and many examples of multimedia work. I am interested to see the varied approaches to the genre. Our own tech went well. We took little time to get everything squared away and I am excited to perform our pieces and show our films to whoever our audiences might be this weekend.
Apart from dancerly activity, today has been a happy reunion with and rediscovery of a place that we have happy memories of. Yesterday evening and today, we ate at some of our favorite restaurants and cafes, along with some we have never been. We ventured into all of the small shops, to find unique jewelry and clothing. Though we were happy to find most of these fabulous finds were very reasonably priced, we were good, and only looked. We have re-connected with some people we met during our last visit, namely Quincy and Robert, our hosts for the festival. Their home will be our home for the weekend. Meeting Kitty, the festival's artistic director again was joyous, and even more joyous was meeting Val, her daughter who was only a bump on Kitty's statuesque frame last we knew!
This evening, we took a trip across the street to enjoy the Contemporary American Theater Festival at Shepherd University. We saw a play called, "Bread Crumbs," about an aging writer who is going through the experience of having alzheimer's and the young woman who comes into her life to try to preserve her memories before it is too late. The play shows how their relationship grows, and how they come to depend on each other, and learn from each other. The play deals with themes of identity, and how we take childhood experiences into our adulthood. It was beautifully written, and beautifully played by the two actresses.
Tomorrow, we gear up to perform, and now it is time for bed!
~Cara
I very much enjoyed meeting all of the other dancers that will be participating in the festival this weekend. It is an intimate group of only about twelve people (I think that is how many I counted!). I am excited to see everyone's work. Today was tech, so we did not get to see anyone's pieces today. However, I am happy to learn that there is a diversity of styles being represented this weekend, and many examples of multimedia work. I am interested to see the varied approaches to the genre. Our own tech went well. We took little time to get everything squared away and I am excited to perform our pieces and show our films to whoever our audiences might be this weekend.
Apart from dancerly activity, today has been a happy reunion with and rediscovery of a place that we have happy memories of. Yesterday evening and today, we ate at some of our favorite restaurants and cafes, along with some we have never been. We ventured into all of the small shops, to find unique jewelry and clothing. Though we were happy to find most of these fabulous finds were very reasonably priced, we were good, and only looked. We have re-connected with some people we met during our last visit, namely Quincy and Robert, our hosts for the festival. Their home will be our home for the weekend. Meeting Kitty, the festival's artistic director again was joyous, and even more joyous was meeting Val, her daughter who was only a bump on Kitty's statuesque frame last we knew!
This evening, we took a trip across the street to enjoy the Contemporary American Theater Festival at Shepherd University. We saw a play called, "Bread Crumbs," about an aging writer who is going through the experience of having alzheimer's and the young woman who comes into her life to try to preserve her memories before it is too late. The play shows how their relationship grows, and how they come to depend on each other, and learn from each other. The play deals with themes of identity, and how we take childhood experiences into our adulthood. It was beautifully written, and beautifully played by the two actresses.
Tomorrow, we gear up to perform, and now it is time for bed!
~Cara
Monday, July 19, 2010
Final Engagement
And here I am, just days after my wedding bliss, back at work. Since arriving home, I have taught three yoga classes, been to the dance studio, edited shots for our film and signed some contracts for the coming season. It never stops. If there is one thing I can say about being an artist, there is never a dull moment.
The most pressing event on my plate right now is the Goose Route Dance Festival. Mackenzie will arrive tomorrow, bright and early for a day of rehearsal before leaving for West Virginia on Wednesday morning. We will spend five days in Shepherdstown, WV dancing, showing our films, meeting fellow artists and taking in the scenery of this beautiful diamond-in-the-rough-town. Mackenzie and I have danced at this festival before, and I must say, it is one of our favorite experiences of the past three years. Not only is the dance festival a wonderful, lively happening, where enthusiastic audience members recognize you on the brick-laid sidewalk and invite you to lunch, where artists forge lasting relationships, and where movement arts can thrive, there is another wonderful part. The Contemporary American Theater Festival happens literally across the street, and features the work of up and coming playwrights in a variety of intimate theater spaces at Shepherd University. The two festivals are not so much in competition I'd say, as much as in concert with each other, sharing audience members and feeding interest for each other. It's a lovely experience, to participate in a performance at Goose Route, then walk across the street to watch a play, and come back to Goose Route to partake in a master class. Art abounds here over the few weeks these festivals are on. And the setting is inspirational, too.
Shepherdstown is a beautiful, old place. Many of the buildings have been left largely unchanged since the 1700's and 1800's. It is quaint, and the people there have worked to keep the history of the place alive. Shepherdstown is not far from D.C. and many people who work in D.C. or have lived there come to, or live in or near Shepherdstown, and thus, Shepherdstown gives off an air of patriotism, but not the kind that would scare you away. In the same breath, Shepherdstown seems a laid back town, where people stop for padestrians, drive nicely and eat a lot of tofu. I like Shepherdstown, and am happy to be returning. I plan to relish our time there, but will be happy when our final engagement of the summer is complete. After the festival, I plan to enjoy the remaining few weeks of my summer, as I am in denial that I am very much looking forward to fall. Maybe I can hit the beach one more time.
~Cara
The most pressing event on my plate right now is the Goose Route Dance Festival. Mackenzie will arrive tomorrow, bright and early for a day of rehearsal before leaving for West Virginia on Wednesday morning. We will spend five days in Shepherdstown, WV dancing, showing our films, meeting fellow artists and taking in the scenery of this beautiful diamond-in-the-rough-town. Mackenzie and I have danced at this festival before, and I must say, it is one of our favorite experiences of the past three years. Not only is the dance festival a wonderful, lively happening, where enthusiastic audience members recognize you on the brick-laid sidewalk and invite you to lunch, where artists forge lasting relationships, and where movement arts can thrive, there is another wonderful part. The Contemporary American Theater Festival happens literally across the street, and features the work of up and coming playwrights in a variety of intimate theater spaces at Shepherd University. The two festivals are not so much in competition I'd say, as much as in concert with each other, sharing audience members and feeding interest for each other. It's a lovely experience, to participate in a performance at Goose Route, then walk across the street to watch a play, and come back to Goose Route to partake in a master class. Art abounds here over the few weeks these festivals are on. And the setting is inspirational, too.
Shepherdstown is a beautiful, old place. Many of the buildings have been left largely unchanged since the 1700's and 1800's. It is quaint, and the people there have worked to keep the history of the place alive. Shepherdstown is not far from D.C. and many people who work in D.C. or have lived there come to, or live in or near Shepherdstown, and thus, Shepherdstown gives off an air of patriotism, but not the kind that would scare you away. In the same breath, Shepherdstown seems a laid back town, where people stop for padestrians, drive nicely and eat a lot of tofu. I like Shepherdstown, and am happy to be returning. I plan to relish our time there, but will be happy when our final engagement of the summer is complete. After the festival, I plan to enjoy the remaining few weeks of my summer, as I am in denial that I am very much looking forward to fall. Maybe I can hit the beach one more time.
~Cara
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Absolutely Perfect
You may have noticed my short hiatus from posting on this blog. Those of you that know me well, know that it was for good reason! My wedding weekend was this past weekend, July 9th-11th and my honeymoon in Jamaica was this past week, the 12th-16th. What a beautiful whirlwind it all was.
It is hard to believe all that has happened over the last eight days. Each one of them has been so wonderful. Not to say that every moment was absolutely perfect, with everyone's temper intact and every detail going according to plan, but the event was, absolutely perfect.
We began on July 9th with our rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. It was the first time a group of people came together to begin celebrating Robert and my impending marriage. We decided to do the rehearsal dinner at our favorite local brewery, and that proved to be a wonderful choice. Just the right mix of formal and casual. A good start with beer for all, and some good eats! We mingled with our immediate family, bridal party and very close friends, and it was lovely. Post dinner, Rob and I hung out with some friends at their hotel room, and had some laughs. Late, we went home to bed. That day made our coming wedding begin to feel real. Earlier that day, my dear friend Susan acted as our ceremony director and expertly put us in our places, and helped us run through the ceremony as it was meant to happen on Sunday. The Davis Memorial Chapel is beautiful, and as we walked through the happenings of each portion of the ceremony, I thought more and more, that this intimate, colorful place was the perfect place to have a wedding. For the day, I wore a bright white sundress and patent red peep toe pumps.
On July 10th, my parents hosted a barbecue for traveling guests. It was wonderful to see so many people strolling up to the door. Many of whom, I had not seen in years, or had never met at all. Our families met and mingled, talked and laughed. I enjoyed the hot summer weather, perfect for a BBQ! The food was great, too. We had a traditional southern BBQ catered by two amazing cooks who do just BBQ! They have the most amazing sauce on the planet, I'm sure. Vinegar based, sweet and spicy, with just the right amount of smoke. Mmm, mmm good! I relaxed with friends and fam in mom and dad's gazebo at the top of the back yard, where many people came to check it out, and say hello. Rob and I attempted to get to bed early, but that did not actually happen. We were too busy wrapping gifts for the bridal party and our parents and making last minute preparations for our honeymoon in Jamaica. Finally, at about 11pm, Robert left me home alone with the cat, and went to Chris' house (the best man) to sleep. I told him I did not mind waking up next to him on our wedding day, but he is a romantic, and loves tradition. So, off he went.
The next morning, July 11th, I was up and at 'em. I actually took some time to write some e-mails and take care of some dance business before heading to the salon! Who does that? At a little before 9am, my mother and sister greet me at my house to bring me to the salon. They shower me with hugs and pre-congratulations and I swear, they are holding back some tears. At the salon, we meet Jen, Robert's sister, and Olga, Robert's mom. I present each woman with a small gift. Smiles and tears ensue and the day has started well. Each woman knows how special she is. We spend the next few hours being coiffed and beautified! By the time we are done, we are cutting it close. We must get home and get me into my dress! Back at mom and dad's house, folks are shuffling about and moving this way and that. Dad rushes out the door to meet the other gentlemen at the chapel. Nanny and Papa are almost ready. Mom slips on her pretty dress, Mackenzie pulls the laces of my corset back dress tightly, Jen puts on her shoes. I am wearing a pair of Mackenzie's earrings, as my borrowed object, she ties a blue ribbon to my garter. Then she pins a snowflake pin into my petticoat, which belonged to my grandmother on my mom's side. As I place my veil on my head, the limo arrives! Christine, the photographer emerges from the car to snap a few shots of the craziness. For a moment, I stop to look at myself in the mirror. I don't think I have ever felt so beautiful. We all get into the limo to stop at the reception venue to pick up our flowers, and get a look at the space before it is full of people. The Enrichment Center, the art gallery and arts and life skills facility for disabled adults, where I have done so much of my work in the past is transformed. It is absolutely beautiful. The room looks like it is set for a grand event, and I can hardly believe that it is my own! Flowers and tall vases everywhere. Beautiful amber lighting and color coordinated table cloths and overlays, like the ones you see on David Tutera's show. Wow!
At the chapel, I arrive just in time for the ceremony to begin! My father hands me an old coin to place in my bouquet. "This was given to me by my grandmother, and it is your 'something old.' By the way, I really liked your gift, and you look beautiful." I gave my dad a pocket watch, engraved with the words, "I'll always be your little girl." He is wearing it today. Through the tiny window of the chapel door, I can see the procession taking place. Pastor Kelly arrives, followed by Robert. The Ushers seat our mothers. The bridal party arrives, and it is my turn. My dad whispers, "slow down," as I rush to the chapel door for my entrance. The doors open, and I feel a broad smile come across my face. There are so many people here, and they have come to witness our marriage. And then there's Robert. Standing at the end of the aisle. He looks handsome, and even better, I can tell he is elated to see me. I am elated, too. So elated, that I don't even remember hearing the music coming from the live guitar up front, even after I so meticulously picked the music that would be played. Our ceremony was absolutely beautiful. Our vows fell easily from our mouths, and we exchanged rings with joy. Sealed with a kiss, we are now husband and wife. As we see each of our guests out, they all have such wonderful things to say to us. They hug us tightly and leave for the reception.
While our guests are at the cocktail hour, we do some family photos in the chapel. Rob and I then get to do some interesting photos on our own. Christine suggests we do some at the bus depot. What a cool place to do wedding photos! I suggest the heritage bridge, an old wooden covered bridge, for some more photographs, as it is beautiful and has great structure and many shapes. I can't wait to get back our photos!
The time comes for Robert and I to enter the reception. We do so to enthusiastic applause! We begin our first dance, for which everyone stands. It is no secret that dancing with a partner is not Robert's forte! However, we have a lot of fun, and laugh and goof off and enjoy the moment. I tell Robert that he can nod to the DJ at any time to fade the music, as the song, "Honey Bee," by Taj Mahal is a bit long! But Rob insists that we dance out our entire song! So we do, and continue to laugh and joke and enjoy each other's antics! We love that song. We saw Taj Mahal at the Blue Note in NYC during one of our first dates. How appropriate! Then dad and I dance. We dance to "You Got A Friend," by James Taylor. Dad is a steady leader, and I have to do little to keep with his movements. We chat and I tell him that the last time we danced together, I was ten years old. He'd taken me to an African music concert at Syracuse University, and I remember telling him that some of the people on stage were real Africans (!), and I tell him how I wrote about it in my diary later that night. Tears softly roll down his cheeks. Lastly, Robert and his mother dance. I have no idea what they said to each other, but it looked like they had a great time together.
Dinner begins, lovely toasts are given by both the Best Man, Chris and the Maid of Honor, Mackenzie. The dads give their best wishes and anecdotal advise and we cut the cake. I am feeling wonderful. Our friend, Mark, who is also a clown, entertains our guests. He pulls streamers out of Rob's ear. He jokes with my grandparents. He even helped me fake making a balloon animal, which was caught on video! This was a surprise to Rob, who had no idea that Mark would be entertaining at the reception! Robert and I make our way around the room to greet everyone again, and have more casual talk with our guests. I am so glad to see everyone is having a great time! I got so may compliments on my dress...I felt like a princess! After dinner, we dance the rest of the evening away. I begin to feel the weight of my dress. But it's OK, I'm not quite ready to take it off! I toss the bouquet and Rob tosses my garter. Rob's grandad, Richard gets the garter, and Gail, his fiancee, gets the bouquet. How wonderful! And they ham it up for some photos!
But the time it is time to go, we are both exhausted. We collect our gifts and head home. We got so many amazing, thoughtful gifts! We are grateful and blessed. We did not manage to get packed before the wedding, so we pack for Jamaica this night. We are up late, and just barely up in the morning! The next day is a looooonnng travel day. A long layover, which turned into a longer layover due to some delays made us feel like we'd never get there! When we finally make it to Negril, it is very late. We awake the next morning to arrive at the beach, where the water is absolutely clear and the sun is warm. We spend the next three days snorkeling, jumping into the ocean off of low cliffs (well, Rob did, I refused) drinking pina coladas, eating great food and enjoying each other's company. I couldn't have asked for a better eight days. it is hard to believe that it all even happened. I hate to get back to reality. But I look forward to our new life together as a married couple! I don't think I will ever have an event in my life as grand as this one again. As I said before, it was,
Absolutely perfect.
~Cara
It is hard to believe all that has happened over the last eight days. Each one of them has been so wonderful. Not to say that every moment was absolutely perfect, with everyone's temper intact and every detail going according to plan, but the event was, absolutely perfect.
We began on July 9th with our rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. It was the first time a group of people came together to begin celebrating Robert and my impending marriage. We decided to do the rehearsal dinner at our favorite local brewery, and that proved to be a wonderful choice. Just the right mix of formal and casual. A good start with beer for all, and some good eats! We mingled with our immediate family, bridal party and very close friends, and it was lovely. Post dinner, Rob and I hung out with some friends at their hotel room, and had some laughs. Late, we went home to bed. That day made our coming wedding begin to feel real. Earlier that day, my dear friend Susan acted as our ceremony director and expertly put us in our places, and helped us run through the ceremony as it was meant to happen on Sunday. The Davis Memorial Chapel is beautiful, and as we walked through the happenings of each portion of the ceremony, I thought more and more, that this intimate, colorful place was the perfect place to have a wedding. For the day, I wore a bright white sundress and patent red peep toe pumps.
On July 10th, my parents hosted a barbecue for traveling guests. It was wonderful to see so many people strolling up to the door. Many of whom, I had not seen in years, or had never met at all. Our families met and mingled, talked and laughed. I enjoyed the hot summer weather, perfect for a BBQ! The food was great, too. We had a traditional southern BBQ catered by two amazing cooks who do just BBQ! They have the most amazing sauce on the planet, I'm sure. Vinegar based, sweet and spicy, with just the right amount of smoke. Mmm, mmm good! I relaxed with friends and fam in mom and dad's gazebo at the top of the back yard, where many people came to check it out, and say hello. Rob and I attempted to get to bed early, but that did not actually happen. We were too busy wrapping gifts for the bridal party and our parents and making last minute preparations for our honeymoon in Jamaica. Finally, at about 11pm, Robert left me home alone with the cat, and went to Chris' house (the best man) to sleep. I told him I did not mind waking up next to him on our wedding day, but he is a romantic, and loves tradition. So, off he went.
The next morning, July 11th, I was up and at 'em. I actually took some time to write some e-mails and take care of some dance business before heading to the salon! Who does that? At a little before 9am, my mother and sister greet me at my house to bring me to the salon. They shower me with hugs and pre-congratulations and I swear, they are holding back some tears. At the salon, we meet Jen, Robert's sister, and Olga, Robert's mom. I present each woman with a small gift. Smiles and tears ensue and the day has started well. Each woman knows how special she is. We spend the next few hours being coiffed and beautified! By the time we are done, we are cutting it close. We must get home and get me into my dress! Back at mom and dad's house, folks are shuffling about and moving this way and that. Dad rushes out the door to meet the other gentlemen at the chapel. Nanny and Papa are almost ready. Mom slips on her pretty dress, Mackenzie pulls the laces of my corset back dress tightly, Jen puts on her shoes. I am wearing a pair of Mackenzie's earrings, as my borrowed object, she ties a blue ribbon to my garter. Then she pins a snowflake pin into my petticoat, which belonged to my grandmother on my mom's side. As I place my veil on my head, the limo arrives! Christine, the photographer emerges from the car to snap a few shots of the craziness. For a moment, I stop to look at myself in the mirror. I don't think I have ever felt so beautiful. We all get into the limo to stop at the reception venue to pick up our flowers, and get a look at the space before it is full of people. The Enrichment Center, the art gallery and arts and life skills facility for disabled adults, where I have done so much of my work in the past is transformed. It is absolutely beautiful. The room looks like it is set for a grand event, and I can hardly believe that it is my own! Flowers and tall vases everywhere. Beautiful amber lighting and color coordinated table cloths and overlays, like the ones you see on David Tutera's show. Wow!
At the chapel, I arrive just in time for the ceremony to begin! My father hands me an old coin to place in my bouquet. "This was given to me by my grandmother, and it is your 'something old.' By the way, I really liked your gift, and you look beautiful." I gave my dad a pocket watch, engraved with the words, "I'll always be your little girl." He is wearing it today. Through the tiny window of the chapel door, I can see the procession taking place. Pastor Kelly arrives, followed by Robert. The Ushers seat our mothers. The bridal party arrives, and it is my turn. My dad whispers, "slow down," as I rush to the chapel door for my entrance. The doors open, and I feel a broad smile come across my face. There are so many people here, and they have come to witness our marriage. And then there's Robert. Standing at the end of the aisle. He looks handsome, and even better, I can tell he is elated to see me. I am elated, too. So elated, that I don't even remember hearing the music coming from the live guitar up front, even after I so meticulously picked the music that would be played. Our ceremony was absolutely beautiful. Our vows fell easily from our mouths, and we exchanged rings with joy. Sealed with a kiss, we are now husband and wife. As we see each of our guests out, they all have such wonderful things to say to us. They hug us tightly and leave for the reception.
While our guests are at the cocktail hour, we do some family photos in the chapel. Rob and I then get to do some interesting photos on our own. Christine suggests we do some at the bus depot. What a cool place to do wedding photos! I suggest the heritage bridge, an old wooden covered bridge, for some more photographs, as it is beautiful and has great structure and many shapes. I can't wait to get back our photos!
The time comes for Robert and I to enter the reception. We do so to enthusiastic applause! We begin our first dance, for which everyone stands. It is no secret that dancing with a partner is not Robert's forte! However, we have a lot of fun, and laugh and goof off and enjoy the moment. I tell Robert that he can nod to the DJ at any time to fade the music, as the song, "Honey Bee," by Taj Mahal is a bit long! But Rob insists that we dance out our entire song! So we do, and continue to laugh and joke and enjoy each other's antics! We love that song. We saw Taj Mahal at the Blue Note in NYC during one of our first dates. How appropriate! Then dad and I dance. We dance to "You Got A Friend," by James Taylor. Dad is a steady leader, and I have to do little to keep with his movements. We chat and I tell him that the last time we danced together, I was ten years old. He'd taken me to an African music concert at Syracuse University, and I remember telling him that some of the people on stage were real Africans (!), and I tell him how I wrote about it in my diary later that night. Tears softly roll down his cheeks. Lastly, Robert and his mother dance. I have no idea what they said to each other, but it looked like they had a great time together.
Dinner begins, lovely toasts are given by both the Best Man, Chris and the Maid of Honor, Mackenzie. The dads give their best wishes and anecdotal advise and we cut the cake. I am feeling wonderful. Our friend, Mark, who is also a clown, entertains our guests. He pulls streamers out of Rob's ear. He jokes with my grandparents. He even helped me fake making a balloon animal, which was caught on video! This was a surprise to Rob, who had no idea that Mark would be entertaining at the reception! Robert and I make our way around the room to greet everyone again, and have more casual talk with our guests. I am so glad to see everyone is having a great time! I got so may compliments on my dress...I felt like a princess! After dinner, we dance the rest of the evening away. I begin to feel the weight of my dress. But it's OK, I'm not quite ready to take it off! I toss the bouquet and Rob tosses my garter. Rob's grandad, Richard gets the garter, and Gail, his fiancee, gets the bouquet. How wonderful! And they ham it up for some photos!
But the time it is time to go, we are both exhausted. We collect our gifts and head home. We got so many amazing, thoughtful gifts! We are grateful and blessed. We did not manage to get packed before the wedding, so we pack for Jamaica this night. We are up late, and just barely up in the morning! The next day is a looooonnng travel day. A long layover, which turned into a longer layover due to some delays made us feel like we'd never get there! When we finally make it to Negril, it is very late. We awake the next morning to arrive at the beach, where the water is absolutely clear and the sun is warm. We spend the next three days snorkeling, jumping into the ocean off of low cliffs (well, Rob did, I refused) drinking pina coladas, eating great food and enjoying each other's company. I couldn't have asked for a better eight days. it is hard to believe that it all even happened. I hate to get back to reality. But I look forward to our new life together as a married couple! I don't think I will ever have an event in my life as grand as this one again. As I said before, it was,
Absolutely perfect.
~Cara
Monday, July 5, 2010
Excitement!
I am so excited! Just last night, I saw the very first cuts of our new film, "Kitchen Table," which we finished shooting a little over a week ago. The colors are exquisite and it's hilarious! I think this is going to be our funnest film yet! This evening, I will venture to Brett's house to play with some of the shots. I'm planning to put a short teaser on the web to begin promoting the film. Stay tuned for that!
This afternoon, my friend Rebecca, who is a fellow yoga instructor gave me the most wonderful restorative practice today in preparation for my wedding weekend. Just three days until the pandemonium begins! Rehearsal and rehearsal dinner on Friday, BBQ on Saturday and wedding on Sunday. Many folks are arriving into town Wednesday and Thursday. Thank goodness for the honeymoon in Jamaica! I will really need the vacation after all of this excitement! Rob and I have spent the rest of this afternoon assembling gift bags for traveling guests, adding last minute RSVP's to the seating chart and speaking with vendors for the last time before our event. I think we should pack now.
~Cara
This afternoon, my friend Rebecca, who is a fellow yoga instructor gave me the most wonderful restorative practice today in preparation for my wedding weekend. Just three days until the pandemonium begins! Rehearsal and rehearsal dinner on Friday, BBQ on Saturday and wedding on Sunday. Many folks are arriving into town Wednesday and Thursday. Thank goodness for the honeymoon in Jamaica! I will really need the vacation after all of this excitement! Rob and I have spent the rest of this afternoon assembling gift bags for traveling guests, adding last minute RSVP's to the seating chart and speaking with vendors for the last time before our event. I think we should pack now.
~Cara
Sunday, July 4, 2010
Tempered Intensity
A lazy Sunday, and a much needed one. Though I am not participating in the July 4th BBQ's and parades, I am happy. I have been enjoying some leisurely reading, which I have not experienced all semester, being swamped with the reading of my studies. I slept in today. Robert set our alarm clock to gently wake us up this weekend with the classical music station. I love music in the morning. I can easily drift in that space between sleep and wakefulness in a reverie of beautiful sound. Warm pianos, breathy flutes, and vibrational tones from many violins. A soft hiss from the radio station. My mind is easy, and I have no idea how long I have been listening. When we finally decide to turn off the alarm clock, it is near 9am.
Fruit power in the morning: Juicy peaches and sweet strawberries. A little melted chocolate doesn't hurt, either! A long walk in the cool of mid morning. This day gets me thinking. This restfulness, which has eluded me all year, seems necessary. Necessary even, for me to keep working in my art. As my mind clears, I feel room opening for fresh ideas and new patterns of thinking. What if I took the coming year to focus on tempering my generally intense, over-scheduled art practice with peace and space? Why does every endeavor I embark on have to yield a product, worthy of performance? Why does every piece of work have to prove something? Is it OK to just be engaged in a process? I know I have addressed this topic before on this blog. But I have been thinking about it a lot lately. Especially after five years of extremely intense work, especially the last two years. When I look at the artists that most inspire me, I notice that they temper their practices. Deborah Hay talks about rest in her writings, taking her time and returning to work. I realize that it is almost inhuman to be producing all the time. To expect the mind to be able to put out one new idea after another with no time for reflection. I'm gonna work on that this year.
Yesterday, I had a most wonderful, much-needed vocal lesson with Barbara. I realized some things yesterday. I finally, after six months of study, am beginning to understand how to keep my low notes from dropping. Barbara made a gesture with her hand, that I immediately dubbed "Jellyfish Hand," which she made to mimic what my soft palate should be doing during those low notes. As I sang, I repeated her gesture, imagining my throat inside, and it worked! I found the place in my voice, where I'm singing, but I feel like I'm just talking. It "sounds like me," too. Before, I was singing not in my own voice, but in this contrived place, that I thought was singing. Now my challenge will be to continue to cultivate these feelings consistently. Oh, the work, the process. It is ever changing, ever engaging and I'm blessed.
The wedding is officially a week away. Robert and I have been making many last-minute preparations, and I am finally feeling relaxed. I think we're gonna have a great time. I told Robert this wedding is just a celebration of what we already know, and what we have already been living. Nothing will change, our taxes will just be different. : )
Until next time,
~Cara
Fruit power in the morning: Juicy peaches and sweet strawberries. A little melted chocolate doesn't hurt, either! A long walk in the cool of mid morning. This day gets me thinking. This restfulness, which has eluded me all year, seems necessary. Necessary even, for me to keep working in my art. As my mind clears, I feel room opening for fresh ideas and new patterns of thinking. What if I took the coming year to focus on tempering my generally intense, over-scheduled art practice with peace and space? Why does every endeavor I embark on have to yield a product, worthy of performance? Why does every piece of work have to prove something? Is it OK to just be engaged in a process? I know I have addressed this topic before on this blog. But I have been thinking about it a lot lately. Especially after five years of extremely intense work, especially the last two years. When I look at the artists that most inspire me, I notice that they temper their practices. Deborah Hay talks about rest in her writings, taking her time and returning to work. I realize that it is almost inhuman to be producing all the time. To expect the mind to be able to put out one new idea after another with no time for reflection. I'm gonna work on that this year.
Yesterday, I had a most wonderful, much-needed vocal lesson with Barbara. I realized some things yesterday. I finally, after six months of study, am beginning to understand how to keep my low notes from dropping. Barbara made a gesture with her hand, that I immediately dubbed "Jellyfish Hand," which she made to mimic what my soft palate should be doing during those low notes. As I sang, I repeated her gesture, imagining my throat inside, and it worked! I found the place in my voice, where I'm singing, but I feel like I'm just talking. It "sounds like me," too. Before, I was singing not in my own voice, but in this contrived place, that I thought was singing. Now my challenge will be to continue to cultivate these feelings consistently. Oh, the work, the process. It is ever changing, ever engaging and I'm blessed.
The wedding is officially a week away. Robert and I have been making many last-minute preparations, and I am finally feeling relaxed. I think we're gonna have a great time. I told Robert this wedding is just a celebration of what we already know, and what we have already been living. Nothing will change, our taxes will just be different. : )
Until next time,
~Cara
Friday, July 2, 2010
A Few Fun Days!
What a wonderful few days it has been!
The day after wrapping on the Kitchen table shoot, Mackenzie and I headed to South Carolina to visit my friend and fellow artist, Laura. We were greeted with amazing hospitality and a bit of adventure!
On Monday evening, we had dinner, made by Laura. She enjoys cooking very much, and she is a great improviser when it comes to combining ingredients. We laughed over our wine, talked about relationships and art, and decided to dance around the house! Mackenzie and I shared some of our favorite dance moves with Laura, who seemed to delight in the learning of them. She then suggested that we go out for a drink at one of her favorite bars. She lent me a dress to wear, as I am never prepared to go out, and off we went. We had a wonderful time talking to the bartender, who was engaging and funny. A first evening well spent.
On Tuesday morning, we decided to hit the beach. Overcast as it was, it was still quite warm, and we relaxed. Neither Laura or I went down to the water, but Mackenzie did, and came across a small sting ray! Laura and I talked at length about our upcoming residency at NCSU, and our plans for the coming semester at Goddard. After the beach, we watched the first of the Alien movies, which had Laura screaming loud, and taking complete control of my left arm. The dogs got into the fun, too. Lucifer and Charlotte climbed on us to cuddle for protection, and I got a lot of tail in my face, by virtue of the fact the I was sitting in the middle of the couch. Laura then had a vocal student visiting, so Mackenzie and I went to the mall to pick out some things to wear to dinner that evening, where we would be celebrating the upcoming marriage of Molly, Laura'a sister, whom we met only briefly the night before. Dinner was delicious! I don't remember the name of the restaurant, but I had an amazing, creamy, starchy, potato and cheese soup (I LOVE a good potato soup), and a fried goat cheese salad (I LOVE goat cheese). We all had a wonderful time, I met Laura's mother for the second time, and a friend of Laura and Molly's from high school. A good ladies night! That night back at Laura's place, we try to begin watching the second of the Alien movies, but we all fall asleep on the couch.
Wednesday morning, we rise bright and early to go kayaking!!! Molly arrives around 8am, and Laura has risen extra early to make muffins! We get on the road a little late, but make our 9am appointment only a few minutes after. Richard, or Dicky as he is called, is a friend of Laura's and our guide for our trip. Anyone that knows me, knows that I am uncomfortable with water. However, I agreed to take this kayaking trip to get out of my comfort zone and do something different! And I'm so glad I did! It took me a little longer than Mackenzie, Molly and Laura to get the hang of being in the kayak, and I hung at the back of the group for a little while, getting my bearings. But I was soon on my way! I saw my first dolphins! And I saw a lot of them! Traveling in little groups, they would gracefully surface for air, then disappear out of site. We saw egrets and oyster beds, a few jumping fish and many people out enjoying the warm weather and calm water. We all got A LOT of color on our skin, though we applied and re-applied our sun screen. I guess the kayaking made up for the overcast day at the beach! Back at Laura's, we watch the rest of the 2nd Alien movie. I think that one is my favorite. We then do a little improvisation together, which Laura records called, "Mittens." WE all have socks on our hands, and we play inside a grand piano Laura is babysitting for the next year. It was lovely jamming with both Mackenzie and Laura. And I must say, the improv didn't sound too shabby! By the time we'd finished, it was already after 4pm, and Mackenzie and I needed to head out. We said our goodbye's and hit the road. An uneventful trip home followed.
Early yesterday morning, I dropped Mackenzie off at the airport. She'll be back for my wedding next week! So I take the opportunity of a day off to watch some tennis and deep clean the house. Aaaaaaaahhhh. I love a clean, sparkly house! I felt like I was cleaning out the past month's busyness. In the evening, I went over to Spot Recording Studio, to record my songs for the quilt piece. Robert, Chris (the engineer) and I had a great time, tweaking my songs and recording them in. I feel much better knowing that the songs will sound more professional for our July performances! And I can't wait for another opportunity to get back in the studio! Guess I'll have to write some more songs...
This morning, it is off to teach some yoga! The enjoy a lazy day, grocery shopping and making some preparations for the wedding!
~Cara
The day after wrapping on the Kitchen table shoot, Mackenzie and I headed to South Carolina to visit my friend and fellow artist, Laura. We were greeted with amazing hospitality and a bit of adventure!
On Monday evening, we had dinner, made by Laura. She enjoys cooking very much, and she is a great improviser when it comes to combining ingredients. We laughed over our wine, talked about relationships and art, and decided to dance around the house! Mackenzie and I shared some of our favorite dance moves with Laura, who seemed to delight in the learning of them. She then suggested that we go out for a drink at one of her favorite bars. She lent me a dress to wear, as I am never prepared to go out, and off we went. We had a wonderful time talking to the bartender, who was engaging and funny. A first evening well spent.
On Tuesday morning, we decided to hit the beach. Overcast as it was, it was still quite warm, and we relaxed. Neither Laura or I went down to the water, but Mackenzie did, and came across a small sting ray! Laura and I talked at length about our upcoming residency at NCSU, and our plans for the coming semester at Goddard. After the beach, we watched the first of the Alien movies, which had Laura screaming loud, and taking complete control of my left arm. The dogs got into the fun, too. Lucifer and Charlotte climbed on us to cuddle for protection, and I got a lot of tail in my face, by virtue of the fact the I was sitting in the middle of the couch. Laura then had a vocal student visiting, so Mackenzie and I went to the mall to pick out some things to wear to dinner that evening, where we would be celebrating the upcoming marriage of Molly, Laura'a sister, whom we met only briefly the night before. Dinner was delicious! I don't remember the name of the restaurant, but I had an amazing, creamy, starchy, potato and cheese soup (I LOVE a good potato soup), and a fried goat cheese salad (I LOVE goat cheese). We all had a wonderful time, I met Laura's mother for the second time, and a friend of Laura and Molly's from high school. A good ladies night! That night back at Laura's place, we try to begin watching the second of the Alien movies, but we all fall asleep on the couch.
Wednesday morning, we rise bright and early to go kayaking!!! Molly arrives around 8am, and Laura has risen extra early to make muffins! We get on the road a little late, but make our 9am appointment only a few minutes after. Richard, or Dicky as he is called, is a friend of Laura's and our guide for our trip. Anyone that knows me, knows that I am uncomfortable with water. However, I agreed to take this kayaking trip to get out of my comfort zone and do something different! And I'm so glad I did! It took me a little longer than Mackenzie, Molly and Laura to get the hang of being in the kayak, and I hung at the back of the group for a little while, getting my bearings. But I was soon on my way! I saw my first dolphins! And I saw a lot of them! Traveling in little groups, they would gracefully surface for air, then disappear out of site. We saw egrets and oyster beds, a few jumping fish and many people out enjoying the warm weather and calm water. We all got A LOT of color on our skin, though we applied and re-applied our sun screen. I guess the kayaking made up for the overcast day at the beach! Back at Laura's, we watch the rest of the 2nd Alien movie. I think that one is my favorite. We then do a little improvisation together, which Laura records called, "Mittens." WE all have socks on our hands, and we play inside a grand piano Laura is babysitting for the next year. It was lovely jamming with both Mackenzie and Laura. And I must say, the improv didn't sound too shabby! By the time we'd finished, it was already after 4pm, and Mackenzie and I needed to head out. We said our goodbye's and hit the road. An uneventful trip home followed.
Early yesterday morning, I dropped Mackenzie off at the airport. She'll be back for my wedding next week! So I take the opportunity of a day off to watch some tennis and deep clean the house. Aaaaaaaahhhh. I love a clean, sparkly house! I felt like I was cleaning out the past month's busyness. In the evening, I went over to Spot Recording Studio, to record my songs for the quilt piece. Robert, Chris (the engineer) and I had a great time, tweaking my songs and recording them in. I feel much better knowing that the songs will sound more professional for our July performances! And I can't wait for another opportunity to get back in the studio! Guess I'll have to write some more songs...
This morning, it is off to teach some yoga! The enjoy a lazy day, grocery shopping and making some preparations for the wedding!
~Cara
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